An Exclusive Members Club
WhereDesireMeets Connection
A carefully curated community for open-minded adults seeking authentic connections, unforgettable experiences, and a space to explore without judgment.
Why Soapies?
We are not like other communities. We pride ourselves on quality, safety, and unforgettable experiences.
Carefully Vetted
Every member is verified through our selective application process.
Real People
Meet genuine, like-minded individuals who share your interests.
Private Events
Access exclusive parties and gatherings at premium venues.
No Judgment
Express yourself in a community that celebrates exploration.
Total Discretion
Your privacy is sacred. We never share your information.
Premium Experience
Curated experiences designed for sophisticated adults.
The Soapies Menu
Different vibes for different nights. Every event is carefully curated for maximum enjoyment.
House & Hotel Parties
Intimate Gatherings
Sex Rave
Venue Events
Sets on the Beach
Outdoor Experience
KNKY Comedy
Partnership Events
All events feature carefully vetted guests and professional organization
Play Safe, Play Smart
Soapies promotes compassion, honesty, and safety. We provide the tools and community support to help you navigate safer sex with confidence.
Wristband System
Encouraged for trust & safety
Green Wristband
Tested within 30 days
Blue Wristband
Tested within 14 days
Full panel includes: HIV, Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, and oral tests.
Soapies Angels
Community leaders here to help
Volunteer members dedicated to safety
Help newcomers feel welcome
Available for guidance at events
Keep the community loving & respectful
Feeling shy? Just ask a Soapies Angel for help!
Consent Culture
Boundaries respected
Community Chats
Connect anytime
Testing Resources
Free options available
How It Works
Our streamlined process ensures quality while respecting your time.
Apply
Complete our application with your details.
Verify
Upload photos for identity verification.
Interview
Brief video call with our vetting team.
Approved
Welcome to the community!
Explore
Access events and connect with members.
What Members Say
"Finally, a community that understands what genuine connection means. The events are impeccable and the people are real."
Exclusive Events
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Refer Friends, Get $$$
Soapies will pay you $35 for every friend you bring into the group. Refer a couple? That's $70!
No limit on referrals
*Referral must be new to Soapies and not yet started vetting
Ready to Get Soapy?
Your adventure into a world of authentic connections and unforgettable experiences awaits. Apply today and discover what you have been missing.
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